How do discover who you really are sexually? You just have to experiment and try it all and find out who you really are. How does a divorced good looking woman fill her needs? A man is pursuing her but she is not interested. She already has what she needs in abundance. Listen to the protagonist as he takes us on his journey of discovery. You really can't judge a book by its cover. Who would ever know that a woman with such a calm personality had a super wild sex life?